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Post by Flammable D on Sept 8, 2010 22:29:25 GMT -5
And the phonecall turns into 10 minutes on Facebook chat cause she hasn't found a phonecard yet Man, long distance relationships suck, I don't know how those poor bastards cope. I've only got it for a month and it's driving me crazy.
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Post by curbside on Sept 8, 2010 22:39:53 GMT -5
I moved in to my new apartment today, which is great. My neighbor, not so much. She's this old retired lady, who has nothing better to do than sit around and complain. She claims that three of the six parking spaces out back we (meaning my roommate and I) cannot use, even though our landlord told us we can use whatever spaces we want, as they are first come, first serve for all residents. Well, I parked my car in one of the spaces we're "not allowed to use" and she threatened to have it towed. What a wonderful start to an even more wonderful relationship.
EDIT: At least the apartment itself is really nice.
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Post by whitejefe on Sept 19, 2010 18:42:31 GMT -5
Tell me if I'm crazy or not, but me and this girl I'm seeing have our best relationship-y talks over text. Our communication is good face to face, but it seems much easier to have our more serious talks over text. I think we're both not very comfortable about expressing our feelings aloud, so texting is a much easier medium to do so. It doesn't seem healthy in the long run, but it's worked thus far. I dunno.
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Post by [beej] on Sept 26, 2010 11:25:25 GMT -5
So, beej got a girlfriend. Who knew that was possible?
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Post by whitejefe on Sept 26, 2010 11:49:42 GMT -5
So, beej got a girlfriend. Who knew that was possible? I always thought he was too much of a womanizer to settle down.
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Post by Flammable D on Sept 26, 2010 17:49:07 GMT -5
So, beej got a girlfriend. Who knew that was possible? Like.
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Post by benjamin on Sept 26, 2010 21:34:43 GMT -5
You're too much of a nice guy I think, it was a matter of time until you found a girl who saw that.
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Post by whitejefe on Sept 26, 2010 22:49:38 GMT -5
Yikes. I've been through some rough shit here lately, fellas. It's officially behind me now, and looking back, it really could've been the end of me, maybe even literally. I've never really seriously considered killing myself, and I don't see it ever happening, especially if I was able to make it through the other side of this shit. I'm not going out of my way to be cryptic, but while I'm "over it", I don't really feel like discussing what happened yet. Just know that what personal life I had fell apart, and I ended up feeling more betrayed than I ever have. On top of that, I've really just been getting my ass kicked all around lately. I really can't catch a break it seems.
This past May, I quit my shitty ass job at the local Hampton Inn, and went back to school. I was also extremely lucky to get my old job back at my aunt's sporting goods store. So it's been school and/or work pretty much everyday since June, and I'm starting to feel the monotony. Also, this summer I thought I had ball cancer. I didn't luckily, but the process of finding out if you do or not isn't exactly pleasant. The bill for that visit wasn't pleasant either. My A/C broke at the beginning of the summer and is gonna cost $500 to fix (that I don't have), and with temperature up to 100 degrees, it's a necessity...that I still don't have. Now it's starting to cool off, so I may not even bother having it fixed. I had my heart fucking dynamited, nuked, and tnt'd, which is what I was referring to above. When a relationship doesn't work out as a result of you personally fucking up, it sucks, but hopefully, you've learned something. But when you've made all the right decisions, put the other person first time and time again, been careful not to be too needy, been careful not to be too distant, and in general, just made it clear to this other person that you'd do absolutely anything for them, and in return, they go and completely self-destruct and hurt you and everyone else around them...I think that's way worse. Because I know I didn't do anything wrong. I put all my energy into this other person, even when I didn't have any to spare, and she just took it all for granted and shit on me. It's rough, man. Because now I really don't know who to trust. This wasn't a multi-month fling, this was years of emotions, history, and trust, and now it's all done. Sometimes a person isn't what you think they are, and you don't realize it until it's too late.
Not to put a damper on ya beej, it's just that I find a burst of inspiration to write these long drawn out things at random it seems.
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Post by benjamin on Sept 26, 2010 23:12:11 GMT -5
Lil' rant in response to what jefe said... spoiler't for length
First of all and with all due respect, your everything should be put into YOU and nobody else my man, by that I don't mean you neglect your significant other or whatever, but that you take care of yourself by taking care of them, not the other way around. I hope you got that ('cause it came out a little messy I think).
I've been on your end, I think at some point, a lot of us here have been, and first thing you gotta learn when going all or nothing, is that most of the times the person you love the most ain't gonna love you back. Once you get that thru your head you're pretty much ready to be happy if it goes well, but also on your feet to endure if it goes to shit.
That principle applies not only for relationships but for life itself.
Thing is bro, girls (genetically) love assholes, and would much rather think you're an asshole that has his romantic moments, than think that you're the ultimate romantic comedy stand-up type of guy, because we're all bound to turn assholes once in a while. This will in turn make them insecure, and in return, make YOU insecure and maybe even MISERABLE.
Try your best to be happy, neglect the ones that hurt you and keep the ones that feed you actual positiveness (is that even a word?).
(For the actual update on ME) Truth is guys, my last relationship (which some of you read about and helped me on), and to be more precise, my last break up, might have rendered me a cold-unloving asshole-ish mess. I just can't get thru many many obstacles I set on myself. I need a girl, but I think I'm blocking my own self to this.
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Post by whitejefe on Sept 27, 2010 18:48:05 GMT -5
I got what you were saying, man. Thanks for the advice. Honestly, I think it was bound to happen eventually (as far as this one girl goes) so it's probably better that it happened now than further down the line. And it seems like a necessity really. This was the final shedding of any naivete and childish optimism I had left in me, and I'm much better off for it.
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Post by benjamin on Oct 6, 2010 17:59:28 GMT -5
You know guys, being injured sucks, it gives you time to think about SERIOUS stuff. I've been thinking about my career prospects (wrestling wise) and my life as it is, I'm getting old for all this, at 23 years old and not being in a stable enviroment whatsoever... I'm not sad, just very thoughtful, I'm searching for reasons to stay in this, but I'm finding much doubt.
Man I'm feeling like really old and helpless.
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Post by Atomsk on Oct 17, 2010 8:36:56 GMT -5
After being threatened, insulted, and nearly choked by my father a few days ago, my mom and a friend called the cops and helped me move all my things yesterday.
I'm living elsewhere, but without an internet connection (Using a public connection), but it's honestly the last thing to worry about in this situation.
So, I might not be online much at all. Gonna have to talk to Benji about days I can cover reviews.
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Post by whitejefe on Oct 17, 2010 10:48:20 GMT -5
After being threatened, insulted, and nearly choked by my father a few days ago, my mom and a friend called the cops and helped me move all my things yesterday. I'm living elsewhere, but without an internet connection (Using a public connection), but it's honestly the last thing to worry about in this situation. So, I might not be online much at all. Gonna have to talk to Benji about days I can cover reviews. That's nuts, man! Glad your mom stepped in. Hope everything works out for you.
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Post by whitejefe on Oct 19, 2010 23:22:44 GMT -5
I've been text flirting with a 27 year old black woman who has a four year old son. In my mind, it's not that crazy. What do you guys think? Judge me, please!
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Post by Harry on Oct 19, 2010 23:25:53 GMT -5
Outside of the texting, what's the relationship between the two of you?
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